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Mother of the Bride Gown 
I ordered a mother of the bride gown from a local bridal shop.

The manager of the store measured me. I am a plus size but the dress she ordered, …

What is the Order of Doing Things at the Reception? 
What is the order of doing things at the reception?

When should we do things like cutting of the wedding cake? the throwing of the flowers and garter? …

Will My Wedding Dress Clash with My Groom? 
Hi,

My dress is ivory.

My husband to be wants to wear dark gray with either a white shirt with purple lilac tie or lilac shirt with purple lilac …

Dressale .com 
I will get married in September and I want to order a wedding dress from dressale, I think the dress in this company is fantastic, the price is reasonable, …

Wedding Budgets and Bill Paying 
Does everything have to be paid off on the day of your wedding or is there anything that can be paid for after?

Answer by Diane:

Hi Judy,

Thanks …

Wedding Reception Games 
What game can we play at the wedding reception if are alloted time is 1 hour?

Answer by Diane:

There are a lot of different wedding reception games …

Camo Wedding Dress 
I was just wondering on where I could purchase that wedding dress on the website?

Answer:

Hi Amanda,

Thanks for your question. Camo wedding …

Wedding Invitation Wording 
I'm the bride and the groom's parents, sisters and a couple of other family members are hosting the wedding...

How can I word that in the invitation? …

I'm Confused about Wedding Announcements? What's the Norm? 
Are you supposed to send something out? Notify papers?

Is there a norm for this?

Answer:

Wedding announcements are something that some couples …

Pastor and Pianist - Invite to the Wedding Reception? Not rated yet
We hired a pianist for the wedding and the pastor just moved to our church and does not really know our family, do we send an invitation to the reception? …

Head table at Reception Not rated yet
When the parents of the bride are hosting the wedding, who typically sits at the head table with the bride and groom the during reception dinner? and …

Who Picks the First Dance? Not rated yet
Who picks the first dance, the bride or groom?

Answer by Diane:

I would hope that you choose the first dance as a couple.

Go through some popular …

What Percentage of guests will Come to the Wedding? Not rated yet
What percentage of RSVP will actually come?

Answer by Diane:

Hello Ann,

Thanks for writing to us with your question.

People do love weddings, …

What Goes in the Guest Basket in the Bathrooms? Not rated yet
What Goes in the Guest Basket in the Bathrooms?

Do you have a list of items that should be included in a basket for the men's and women's bathrooms? …

How Much Deli Meat and Cheese to Order For the Reception? Not rated yet
I am planning an Open House type of reception with small sandwich rolls and deli meat and cheese.

How much cheese and meat should I order per person? …

Outside Fall Wedding Archway Pictures Ideas Not rated yet
I'm looking for some great outside fall wedding archway picture ideas

The wedding is being held outside in a woodsy atmosphere.

The bride would …

Wedding Invitation Wax Seals Not rated yet
Who's initial is used when using a wax seal for wedding invitations?

Answer by Diane:

Hello and thanks for asking such an interesting question. …

How to HangTulle Not rated yet
How to Hang Tulle

I am going to hang tulle swags over the windows at my reception and the venue has hooks next to each side of the window, but what …

Wedding colours Not rated yet
Can you please help me with what colours are appropriate for a wedding in October of this year for the bridesmaids and the groomsman.

Your prompt response …

Addressing the Wedding Invitation Inner Envelope Not rated yet
Do we not address family as Aunt and Uncle on the inner envelope? They should still be addressed Mr and Mrs??

Answer by Diane:

In normal instances, …

Wedding Guests and Reception Food Not rated yet
90 guest are invited to the wedding. How many out of the 90 guest will be there and how much food should be served?

Answer by Diane:

People do …

Addressing of Judges on Wedding Invitation Not rated yet
Is it appropriate for the mother of the bride and stepdad to be addressed if they are both judges by sending out the invitations to guests as Honourable …

Finding a Food manager for my reception at church Not rated yet
Are there culinary students who want to manage a wedding of 200 plus? I want to plan my menu and buy the food but I need a manager and staff of three to …

Wedding Date on the Long Weekend? Not rated yet
I need advice!

We are thinking of having our wedding date on the long weekend on Sunday, July 1st, 2012.

So Monday everyone will be off, and that …

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Do It Yourself Wedding Flowers Not rated yet
For Do It Yourself Wedding Flowers, do you have a good suggestion on how to transport a 20 inches vase plus the arrangement on top?

I will rent a …

Guest List Issue - Do I invite? Not rated yet
I have a guest list issue.

My mother has a very dear friend from work who has 2 daughters.

I am close to one and not the other (who is married). …

Too Early to Reserve? Not rated yet
Is it too early to reserve my reception and ceremony places now?

I know who's going to do the food, but I don't know what kind of food?

Do you have …

My Big Day - How to Start? Not rated yet
Hi there,

My name is Ashley and my wedding is going to be in September of 2012.

I'm trying to start early so I don't get too stressed out and have …

Wedding Reception Centerpieces Not rated yet
I'm doing the wedding reception centerpieces for my friend's wedding.

I have done a few before, simply elegant ones.

My friend picked tall 20 inch …

Guest List Problem - Children not of a prior marriage.... Not rated yet
My spouse-to-be has two boys. They have a half-brother (from their mother not my spouses').

We are having only children; our witnesses and the minister …

Reception Dresses! Help!!! Not rated yet
Hello!

I have ordered my wedding dress but I feel that it is not suitable for reception party.

So, I’ve decided to change into another one for …

An Adult Wedding  Not rated yet
What is the proper way to let your guests know that it is going to be an adult wedding?

Answer by Diane:

Hi there,

Thanks for your question …

What Wedding Reception Games Can You Play On the Dance Floor???  Not rated yet
I know about Bride and Father or Groom and Bride 1st dance, maybe a line dance,and flower tossing, but what others are there to do?

Answer by Diane: …

Centerpieces for a Wedding Reception Not rated yet
How much should I charge for centerpieces for a wedding reception.

I would like to do a vase, flowers and candle centerpiece for 75 tables?

I don't …

The Master of Ceremonies Not rated yet
Who normally would I ask to be the commentater or master of ceremonies?

Answer by Diane:

It is normal to ask a close family relative to be your …

veil ettiquette Not rated yet
Does the bride have to wear a veil?

Answer by Diane:

Hello Shell,

Thanks for writing to us with your question!

It's your day and if you don't …

Food for a Wedding Not rated yet
We have a $5000 budget for 100 people and for catering/food is $950.

What kind of food could we serve?

Answer by Diane:

Normally you would budget …

Decorating a Gym For a Wedding Not rated yet
We are having the wedding reception in a grade school gym.

The walls are bright blue. How and what do I need to cover it.

The colors of the wedding …

Grooms Parents Not rated yet
Is a wedding invitation mailed to the groom's parents?

Answer by Diane:

I think it is dependent on how the wedding invitation is worded.

If …

guest list Not rated yet
Are my siblings part of my guest list or my daughter's list who is the bride?

Answer by Diane:

As weddings are a celebration of family and uniting …

Bells Not rated yet
You used to have differents sizes of plastic bells both clear and solid white I don't seem to be able to find them. Would appreciate your help.

Thank …

Venue Discount - Can I Ask For One? Not rated yet
Hi. We are planning to get married in about two months (April - early May).

There are banquet facilities with availability on such short notice. …

Father's Rights at the Wedding Not rated yet
As the father of the bride, I'm feeling completely ignored.

I'm paying so why shouldn't I have a say in something?

We are having a family style wedding …

Where to begin? Not rated yet
We have picked a date, but I am confused as to where to go from here. Can someone help me get started?

Answer by Diane:

Hello Brianne,

Thanks …

designing software Not rated yet
Which software I should use to design my wedding decoration?

Software should be user friendly,easy and effective.

Answer by Diane:

I am not …

wedding bells and flowers recipe Not rated yet
I need a recipe for an old time white granulated sugar and egg white(raw) mixing it with my fingers using a small amount at a time until I had it at the …

Wedding Dress Deposit Refund Not rated yet
I put a deposit down on a wedding dress, but now I am having second thoughts.

Will they refund my money?

Answer by Diane:

Hi Gabbi,

Thanks …

What Kind of Wedding Reception Games Should I Play at my Wedding Reception? Not rated yet
What kind of games should I play at my wedding?

Answer by Diane:

Hello Amber,

Thanks for your question. There are many different types of games …

wedding dresses Not rated yet
Hi,

Do you know anything about inweddingdresses.com?

It seems too good to be true, and I can't find any information about the site.

Is it a legitimate …

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Post wedding reception Not rated yet
My husband lives overseas and we had a beautiful small wedding a year ago at his country of residence.

Unfortunately, not many people from my side …

Photographer Cost Not rated yet
What is the average cost for all day wedding photography?

Answer by Diane:

The cost of a photographer depends on a few different things. Geography …

How to Plan a Small Budget Wedding in 2012? Not rated yet
So I am plainning my wedding for 2012.

I, myself, have a fairly small family. My fiancé on the other hand, has anything but a small family.

We …

Dress for Mother of the Bride Not rated yet
Can I get my deposit back for a dress that does not fit me?

Answer by Diane:

Hi Sharon,

Thanks for asking your question. I think the first …

A Venue on the Beach Not rated yet
I am looking for a venue on the beach.

I am wondering what types of qustions I should be asking when I am calling around to different venues and locations? …

Corsages Not rated yet
Having a post wedding reception, do the cake servers, punch, register table, mothers, and grandmothers have a corsage? Thanks

Answer by Diane:

catering inquiry Not rated yet
For $125.00 per plate, what can I expect to get food wise? What would it include?

Answer by Diane:

The answer to your question is a little complicated …

How to Hang Tulle Swags? Not rated yet
I would like to hang tulle swags from the wall at a reception.

Is there a special name of the hook that you would use to hang the tulle?

Answer …

Wedding Invitations Not rated yet
Should you use the bride and grooms middle names on the invitations?

Answer by Diane:

Hello and thanks for your question! Wedding invitations …

When Is the Bridal Show at the Hotel in Northampton, MA? Not rated yet
I was wondering when the bridal show is in the hotel Northampton,MA?

I know that there is one every year but don't remember when...

Thank you,

Place Cards & Meal Choice Dilemma Not rated yet
We are having two entres at our reception.

When we sent out our invitations we only asked how many of each entre was desired and not who gets them. …

wedding dinner name labels Not rated yet
We are having seating at a feast table for dinner. Do we make the labels Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Sally Smith or John Smith and Sally Smith?

soon to …

anemone Not rated yet
hindi meaning of anemone

Answer by Diane:

Hello Sandeep,

Thanks for your question. I've been trying to find the answer for you...from what …

How Can I Be a Volunteer Wedding Coordinator? Not rated yet
I would like to get some information on volunteering.

I see myself coordinating peoples weddings, and making them happy with what they chose for. …

Can I Have a Private Wedding Ceremony, but a Reception as if we did have a ceremony? Not rated yet
Is it alright to have a reception only, if you decide not to have a wedding?

I don't want the hassle of a church wedding and the extra expenses of …

How do you Keep Little Ones Happy at the Wedding Reception? Not rated yet
Any suggestions on how to keep young children happy during the reception - without spending a fortune.

Answer:

First of all, thanks for your question, …

How to Word a Wedding Invitation to Have Guests Pay for Their Own Rooms? Not rated yet
How do I word the invitation to a 2 day wedding and have the guests pay for their own rooms at the bed and breakfast?

Answer:

Hello Melanie,

Do I Have to Have a Head Table? Not rated yet
Do we have to have a head table at our reception? Is it tacky if we don't?

We are having a laid back reception at a fire house event room with lunch …

How grapevine will look on a Column? Not rated yet
Our reception area has 10 columns and we were wanting grapevine to go around them, with lights, do you have a picture of something similar?

Answer: …

Questions to ask reception/ceremony site Not rated yet
I am still in the early stages of planning.

I am still trying to choose a site. I need questions to ask to make my final decision between the two. …

How much does a 1 ct Diamond weigh? Not rated yet
how much weight for 1 ct Diamond?

Answer:

To be exact, one carat is equal to 200 milligrams.

You might also hear the references of how many …

My Raspberry Filling Did Not Thicken Not rated yet
How do I get the raspberry filling to thicken?

It did not thicken enough after I put in the chambord.

Answer:

Hi, and thanks for your question. …

When Someone Declines to Attend Due to the Someone Else Being on the Guest List.... Not rated yet
I have a friend whose son invited his Aunt's Ex.

It was a bad breakup.

His Aunt's ex is now his boss.

Now his Aunt who is also his godmother …

What is the Etiquette for Seating Parents?  Not rated yet
We will be having round tables at our wedding reception...how do we seat parents of bride & groom...is it alright if they are seated across from each other? …

Hydrangea Wedding Bouquet Not rated yet
When you use cut hydrangea blooms for a wedding bouquet, is there anything you can do or use to keep these flowers from wilting so quickly?

Answer: …

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Appetizers for Summertime Outdoor Wedding/Reception Not rated yet
I am planning a summertime outdoor wedding/reception and want to do heavy appetizers.

How many do I need if this is the only food served.

Answer: …

"Miss" versus "Ms." on Wedding Invitations Not rated yet
When should you use 'Miss' versus 'Ms.' when referring to the bride in a wedding invitation? Or do they both have the same meaning?

I am a bride …

Wedding Reception Food  Not rated yet
How much does wedding reception food cost on average per guest?

Answer:

Food costs depend on a lot of things but mostly on what is being served …

Planning a Western Wedding  Not rated yet
I need to know if there is a arch out of horseshoe.

Answer:

I went on my favorite wedding/party decoration website Shindigz and I found...

Wax Seal for wedding invitations Not rated yet
Whose initial do you put in the wax seal of a wedding invitation? The bride's current initial or her married one? Parents are paying for the wedding. …

Mothers dresses?  Not rated yet
Does the bride have to pick out mothers dresses??

Answer:

Let your Mom pick out her dress with your careful input. Here are some of the things …

Problems with the Bride's Mother Not rated yet
I am the mother of the groom and the mother of the bride seems to think that her daughter thinks she is better than them because she spends time with me …

What to Write on Wedding Invitations? Not rated yet
I've ordered wedding invitations that has printed words that I want to put in it.

Now that I have to send them, do I have to write their name inside …

How to Put Together a Simple Wedding Invitation Not rated yet
We purchased very simple invitations to do ourselves.

The kit came with the invitations and outer envelope, response card and envelope. These invitations …

mexican wedding dresses Not rated yet
Do you please have any in a white or other colours cotton and i am a 10 approx.

Thank you

Kind regards, leesa

Answer by Diane:

Hi Leesa, …

Addressing invitation to married couple, but wife is a doctor Not rated yet
What is the proper way to address a married couple but the wife is a doctor? Would this be correct....

Mr. Joe Schmoe and Doctor Jane Schmoe

Answer: …

monster in law dress Not rated yet
Can you tell me where to buy the monster in law gown?

Answer:

The Monster In Law wedding dress is very popular and classic looking.

It is made …

tacky venue Not rated yet
I am planning a last minute wedding. My finance and I are very modern and we like bright colors and simple style, however, this venue has elements of tacky …

bridesmaid dress Not rated yet
Someone could give me any idea about these 2 dresses?

I want to order 1

http://www.topbridaldress.com/product.php?productid=4146&cat=0&page=1

OR …

What Can I Do to Plan Something Special For My Husband? Not rated yet
I want to plan something special for my husband during the ceremony or reception.

What are some suggestions that I could do?

Answer:

There …

Children Invited Or Not? Not rated yet
Should children in the immediate family be invited to the wedding?

My nephew has informed us that, only children over the age of 5 will be invited. …

How Do I Put a Wedding Arch Decoration Together? Not rated yet
A friend of mine loaned me her wedding arch and I am having some trouble putting it together.

My biggest problem is the top of the arch.

Can you …

Can I Not Invite a Relative I Don't Get Along With? Not rated yet
My fiance's cousin and I do not get along at all!!!

We haven't even spoke to each other in a year and I really don't feel like I owe it to her to invite …

How Do I Make a Large Blowup Of The Guest Table Assignments? Not rated yet
I'm planning to have a large blowup of the guest table assignements.

What's the best way to do this so it looks nice?

Answer:

Thank you for …

How Do I Make a Balloon Arch Over a Pool? Not rated yet
I am looking to make a balloon arch decoration over a pool for my wedding.

What is the best way to make it?

Answer:

I think that when you are …

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